People often ask me, "How do you manage to be away from your kids? Don't you miss them terribly?" The honest answer is yes, I do miss them. But there's another layer to this story that comes from deep within. It's this quiet voice inside me that says, "While it's hard, it's also beneficial—for me, and maybe even for them." Travel has always been a significant part of my life, long before I had a family. Even back then, trips for work would pop up occasionally. Chris and I used to discuss how these separations could actually strengthen our bond. There’s truth in the old adage, “Absence makes the heart grow fonder,” and I agree—up to a certain extent. A few days apart here and there have added depth and richness to our relationship. Missing each other creates anticipation for reunions, and during those times apart, we learn to truly value the little things we do together when we're reunited.

Now, how does this translate to parenting? I believe there’s a meaningful parallel here. As mothers, it's easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of everyday life. Between diaper changes, laundry piles, school runs, meals, and everything else, finding time to breathe can feel impossible. It takes a lot of strength to remain present as a mother rather than getting lost in the chaos of schedules and routines. Sometimes, stepping away—even just for a night or two—can be incredibly rejuvenating. Bathing kids, reading bedtime stories, and tucking them in can wait. Taking that break allows you to rediscover the joy of motherhood, to see your children not just as responsibilities but as individuals with unique personalities. Not all moms can afford to take time off, but most of us have been told countless times to prioritize self-care. Whether it’s a date night or a solo getaway, finding moments of peace can be transformative.

Being away from my family has taught me so much. While I miss them dearly, it’s also given me space to recharge. I can finally take a shower uninterrupted, read a book without interruptions, and go to bed whenever I please. These moments of solitude help me refocus and regain perspective. Hearing their voices on the phone, the ones I've been busy shushing just hours before, feels different now. I listen with fresh ears, appreciating every word and tone. It’s a reminder of how precious these moments are.

For the kids, having some time without me has its own set of benefits. They learn to be more independent, stretching their wings while I’m gone. They might feel the loneliness too, but they’re developing resilience. From the stories they share about their days without me, I can see their growing confidence. It’s beautiful to witness their ability to adapt and thrive, even when I’m not around. This experience has made me realize that sometimes, the hardest decisions can lead to the most rewarding outcomes—for everyone involved.

In the end, being apart has taught me to cherish the moments we have together even more. It’s a delicate balance, but one that I’m learning to navigate with grace. Life is about finding that rhythm, balancing the needs of your family with your own well-being. Because at the end of the day, we’re all stronger when we take care of ourselves first.

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